Can I date to my friend's ex?

Can I get date to my friend's ex? 

Some people are troubled over the issue of getting their selves involved with their friend's ex. Well, to me getting involve with your friend's ex is not a bad idea but first of all what really happened between the two of them? You should ask yourself that question. Maybe your friend left her or him because of something bad. Maybe she always steal from him or something else that's not good. If that be the case I don't think you should involve yourself with such a person as a date because what happened to your friend might repeat it self but if your friend dump him or her for no just cause, you can go ahead and be with her that's if you love her.
 Let's break things down her. You might ask what if eventually your friend knows about you two will he or she be angry?  It depends on what really happened between their two. If your friend has a genuine reason for leaving his girlfriend or boyfriend I think you should hear him out before you decide on anything. In some situations your friend might be the one being dumped  by his or her lover which might really happen. In this case it's very wrong to go date his or her ex because that might cause a lot of trouble and might really break up your relationship with your friend because you bringing him or her to your friend might bring back unpleasant memories.
 Now, what if she left my friend for something he does that's not right and she has tried her best to advice him and he didn't listen? Well, if she Has tried her best to advice him but he didn't listen, you as well should advice him as a friend but if he refuse to listen the case is settled. If along the process she falls in love with you and you also love her too you can go ahead and date her. You will not be blamed because you have tried to keep their relationship standing but since he refuses to change, its not you fault.
 What if my friend travelled and his girlfriend or boyfriend fell in love with me during his or her travelling period? Well, it depends on how far and how long he or she traveled. If your friend traveled to a far distance like outside the country and has not come back for over four to five years, that's not an issue. You can go ahead and date his or her ex if you love her or him but if your friend didn't travel far and he or she is always coming home to see his girlfriend or boyfriend, I don't think it's ideal to date his girlfriend or boyfriend.

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