So many guys out there ask this question, "how can i find the right woman for marriage?". That right woman you are searching for is close to you but you haven't noticed. Finding the right woman is very important in terms of marriage. You can not marry a woman who does not value you, who does not respect you, of course not. To every man there is right woman, so it's your job to find that right one.
What are the qualities of a good woman? Before you go ahead finding the right woman for you, you must first of all know the qualities of a good woman. Some of these are the key qualities of a good woman.
She must be caring:
How do you know a caring woman? You can't just see a woman and know she is caring, it takes a little while to observe that, from the way she calls and visit you anytime you are not well or something went wrong, the way she advises you, the way she cares about your welfare. Though it's difficult to find someone so caring like this but at least if not all some of it. Your woman must not be hundred percent perfect in terms of caring before you know she is the one, at least sixty to seventy percent perfect. When you find such woman, hold her tight.
She must be hardworking:
You should not date or marry a woman who is not hardworking. How do you know a woman is hardworking? A hardworking woman does things for herself without the assistance of anyone. A lazy woman is not fit for you. A woman that can take care of things in absence of her husband, who can feed the family when things are not too well, who can provide help for her husband either financially or other wise, a woman who can stand by her husband no matter what, a woman who has something doing, either a job or a handwork, not always depending on her husband. Such woman is who you need but the point is how can I know this kind of woman from the start? You must take notice of some things she does. Is she always tired? Does she always ask for help if she's doing anything? Does she always ask for money? Does she assist you in some things you do, either financially or other wise? If she's not and you still love her, you should train her but if she does not learn, find someone else. Remember, your girlfriend must not be hundred percent hardworking but she must at least be sixty to seventy percent hardworking.
She must be God fearing:
This is a requirement for every good woman, to be God fearing. If a woman does not fear not respect God her maker, how we she respect you? How do you know a woman is God fearing? Watch her closely. Does she pray anytime she is with you? Is she in any department in church? Does she go church always? Is she spiritually stable? Find out about these things before getting ready for marriage.
She must be honest:
Is you woman trustworthy? Is she honest enough? Though humans are not that honest but to some extent. You need a honest woman in your home, who can open up to you anytime. How do you know your woman is honest from the start? Check out some things about her. Does she accept her mistakes and take corrections? Is she always where she says she is? Can she tell you her secrets? Can she boldly tell you if someone ask her out? Check all these things first. Your woman must not be hundred percent perfect in this but she must be trying.
No woman can pretend for long, so don't bother at all if you think they will. Share with us your views, we will gladly appreciate.
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