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Thursday, 7 December 2017

My boyfriend impregnated another girl but he claims he still loves me. What should I do?


My boyfriend impregnated another girl but he claims he still loves me. What should I do?

 In so many cases, we have seen issues like this whereby your boyfriend impregnates another girl and all that but before you decide to take any action you should have taken time to think. People might say he's a fool for doing that after all the love you have showed him but yet he still betrayed you. Hold on, think! If your boyfriend impregnates another girl and all you could think is that he's cheating, he might be really cheating but have you find out things out? The fact that your boyfriend impregnated a girl doesn't mean he's cheating. It might a relationship from the past, or a set up or something. If he claims he still loves then he should prove it.
 Before you jump into any conclusions, these are the things you must have or should observe to know if he truly loves you.

He's attitude before the incident:
When he was with you before the news about the incident, was there any change in behavior?  Was he behaving strange? Was he avoiding you?  Was he picking up any little thing as a form of query? If his attitude was questionable before the incident which means he is aware of it and finding any means to pull you off. If he knew about it why didn't he tell you? You might understand that he is scared of losing but behaving strange is not good at all. This is where trust comes in. How would he say he loves you when he can't tell you his secrets? Love needs trust to stand. If you have observe his behavior before the incident and find him faulty, you should hold on to it and observe his behavior after the incident. If you also observe  that his behavior is not faulty, he told you everything before time, he really loves you.

He's attitude after the incident:
After the incident, what was his actions? Does he still says he loves you? If after the incident your boyfriend never showed up again nor even call you like before but anytime he sees you he says he still loves you. Don't be a fool sister, he is using your head but if he shows you more attention more than even before the incident happened, believe him because it only takes great men to accept their mistake and to correct it. Since he has accepted the fact that he was responsible and he explained what really happened and his attention towards you increased, believe him dear and stick with him.

Relationships have fallen apart because of this mistake. If your boyfriend impregnates another girl don't rush into conclusion.. Take time to check out the things I have suggested before taking action. Don't just allow one girl to ruin you sweet relationship.
 If you really love your boyfriend and he loves you too, the case is settled. Though they might be pressures from your family, your friends but love conquers all. If you missed the right man for you because of your family my dear it's no ones fault but yours. God didn't promise a smooth journey but he promised  a sweet ending, so it's love because God is Love.....  Remember, it takes mature minds to deal with this peacefully.
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