On my post earlier we talked about finding the right woman for marriage, so we are going to be talking now on finding the right man for marriage. Marriage is meant to be strong, joyful, full of happiness and lasting. How would your marriage experience these things without marrying the right man nor woman for you? You don't just jump into marriage, no, you walk carefully into it because it's a life time thing. If you rush into marriage, you will also rush out of it. Marriage is a life time commitment which you already know, why then spend your entire life with someone that's not right for you? Not getting married is better than living without happiness in your home. Before you get married to your dream love take into consideration things he does and how he does it. What are the qualities of a good man? You must know this before choosing any man for marriage. These are the key qualities of a good man.
He must be caring:
This is a major quality that a man and woman should possess. Your man must be caring enough. How do you know a caring man? Normally when a guy starts dating a girl or asking her out, that period he shows more care. Knowing a caring guy is not a short time thing. It takes a while to know if he is actually caring. People do pretend but be rest assured it's not for long. Some men after having sex with their girlfriends loses his caring qualities. You have to observe this long enough before you know if he is actually caring. How do you know a caring man? Does he always check up on you? Does he find time to spend with you? Does he provides some of your needs? You check out these things.
He must be honest:
He must be honest. Some guys pretends to be what they are not. A man that is proud of himself will not pretend to be someone he's not just to please a lady, no. Every relationship needs honesty to stand. Your man might not be hundred percent honest but at least sixty to seventy percent honest. A man that can open up to you, a man that is what he says he is, that kind of man is what you need.
He must be appreciative:
Follow a man that knows your value. A man that appreciates you, a man that respects you. You can't stay in a relationship where your decision don't count, your efforts is not appreciated, you don't deserve that. A appreciative man is what you need. Some girls are dying slowly in their relationships because of this. Anytime they try to say something or do something they are being shut down by their boyfriends and they say it's love. My sister, if your man does not appreciate you nor value you what is the need being in that relationship with him? Let go and find someone who must appreciate you. You are valuable and precious, let your man know that.
He must be responsible:
Your man should be responsible enough to handle some of your needs. A man that knows his place in a relationship and how to please his woman. You need a man who can handle things without being told to.
He must be God fearing
Your man must be God fearing. He must be engaged in Godly things.
He must be hardworking:
Your man should have something genuine that he is doing. You don't need a lazy man or a man man who can't tell you the source of his money. How do you know a hardworking man? Is he always with his friends? Is he always with you? If yes he not hardworking. Your man should not be found around you all the time, he must be at least busy with his own business and career. He should also have time for him self.
There might be someone in your life that has these qualities but you have not given him time to prove it. The right man for you is closer to you. Just give him a chance.
Don't go for a man because of money. Money is not everything.
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